I can't believe it's been a year...well, not quite a year since I started blogging, crafting, and writing about my life for all the world to see...but close. A lot has changed.
My newborn is now a walking, active toddler. Super cute and unwilling to start talking but the profound thoughts are there, I'm sure. He's 15 months old and I'm still nursing him, though he sometimes will drink cow's milk from a cup and he eats solid foods (sometimes more than my 3 year old!). He's growing fast and getting strong and his teething makes me want to wean him a lot sooner than I did with his older brother...that is to say as soon as possible!
My toddler is now a "preschooler", though not in school or any form of daycare. At three years old, he just doesn't stop - talking, running around, getting into trouble, developing a curious and independent mind of his own. He likes his cars, puzzles, and Mickey Mouse paraphernalia almost as much as he loves doing whatever I'm doing. He doesn't nap during the day anymore (sigh) and he still has to cuddle next to me to sleep. Potty training has been slow, but positive (we made a push for it these past couple weeks during our "stay-cation") and I'm certain we'll be right where we want to be in the coming month.
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| Two Mickeys for Halloween 2012 (their Dad was also Mickey and I was Minnie) |
Oh that reminds me - as part of our stay-cation (a vacation where we mostly stayed home or stayed local), we took them to Disneyland and California Adventure Park for the first time. They loved it! Everything was new to me and the hubby too, since we haven't been there since Grad Nite (when we graduated high school). Crowded and tiring (and cold) but worth every penny to see their faces light up at the 60 foot Christmas trees and holiday lights, and ride a rollercoaster and spinning teacup, dance along with the parades, or meet the mouse himself - Mickey. I think we've got the park's fastpass and rider swap techniques down. That saved so much time. We never waited more than 15 minutes in line for a ride. And we have the (cheapest) annual pass, so we can go back again. Soon I hope.
We also went to Griffith Observatory and the LA Zoo recently, and earlier this year - San Diego Zoo and Safari Park and Seaworld, and....SEVEN WEDDINGS! Yes, we were guests at seven weddings in 2012, and Allen was the best man and I was a quasi-coordinator for one of them - my brother-in-law's wedding. I helped make the flower centerpieces, bouquets, placecards, table numbers, and photo props (see pictures below). Stressful but fun, and it turned out beautifully.


The rest of the weddings included an old college friend, an old med school friend, three cousins of mine, and the last - the marriage of two of our friends, last-standing singles among our many married friends. I helped a little on that wedding too. And went to my first bachelorette party and bridal shower! I never even had ones of my own, so they were both fun. As I blogged about before, I love weddings, wedding planning, attending, helping...everything! So in addition to the planning and designing of decor, I also enjoyed making wedding gift cards this year. Each card was unique and I tried to incorporate colors and designs I thought each bride would like. I took cues from their invitation or save the date card. Hopefully, they liked them!

I also am in the process of designing invitations and decor for two more weddings that are coming up in March and May 2013. Fun! Maybe one day I'll do this as a job and not just a hobby or favor to friends and family. But that would mean even more time away from the boys, which I'm just not willing or able to give up at this time.

That brings me to just crafting in general. I've crafted so much this year, sitting at my crowded desk and building up my craft supply collection, making cards, stamping, embossing, doing wedding crafts, birthday parties, and gifts. And I've cooked more and tried new things...but the documenting it all and blogging about it thing ended pretty quickly. I still read others' blogs that I get in my Google Reader feed every day, and I garner ideas and recipes from them all the time. Some of which I try out myself. Some of which inspires me on my own path to creation. But I just can't take the next step and write about it all to share here, as I intended to do. I'm sorry blog readers!
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| Who can resist these faces?? |
I don't even want to make promises that I will post more often and take more pictures and write about my experiences on a regular basis. Because bottom line is this - I don't want to spend more time away from my kids than I need to. I understand everyone needs some "me-time" and I definitely get some (uh...TV and kindle addict over here). But when I craft or cook, I try to involve the boys (well, at least my 3 year old) and they love doing new things and are curious about everything and I have to explain every little thing and teach them and be safe about what they touch and do...AAHHHH!!!! There really are not enough hands free to take a picture of what I'm doing, or enough hours in the day to sit down and write about it all later. Even now, I'm writing this post on my cellphone while everyone is still sleeping, and I have only marginal hopes of formatting the post, including good pictures and actually uploading it. I'm lucky if I can send off a blurry picture to facebook and write a status update every now and then so everyone knows I'm alive and well.
Because I am well. WE are well. 2012 was fantastic because we are doing so well and are healthy and our home is homey and we are surrounded by friends and family and see them often. And all the weddings made me so happy and reminded me of the beginning of my own little family and made me feel lucky to be where we are now. There were quite a few new babies and growing toddlers and kids this year too and I'm happy to think mine will have friends they've "known since birth" if they do end up being life-long friends. I know I'm happy for my cousins who are my friends also and my old and new friends, who are like family too. I'm happy for my blood family and their health and successes this year and my parents' beautiful remodeled home and my grandma's new house and varied family members' businesses that launched and are growing this year. We are an entrepreneurial family, that's for sure. That's why even though I have a law degree, I always planned on either starting my own office or business someday. I could never picture being a part of the corporate grind, nor could I ever be now, with two young boys. Not that there aren't many women who choose to be, and can do so successfully. I just know I would need something more flexible. And as long as I have the luxury to decide, I choose my boys. I choose my life.

2012 - you've been great. 2013 - BRING IT ON!